Mid-Atlantic OAMNews

Happy New Year!!!     
         

January/February, 2004

                                                                       

This newsletter is sponsored by:            

Synod of the Mid-Atlantic, PC(USA)

Sunnyside Communities

The Presbyterian Homes, Inc. of NC

 

 

 

Mid-Atlantic OAMNews – is a monthly e-newsletter dedicated to the promotion of spiritual health and well-being of older adults and their families – offering information, resources, model ministries, stories, and humor!  Visit our web-site at www.synatlantic.org and click on Older Adult Ministries.  Jan McGilliard, Editor

 

In this issue:

OAM Calendar

Mid-Atlantic OAM Survey

Poetry Corner

Retirement Community News

Honoring Miriam Dunson

Dr. Harold Koenig on Religion, Spirituality, and Medicine

Good News-Bits to Share

Vacations with a Purpose

Lack of Adult Day Services

Confusion over Status of Medicare Bill

Funding Opportunity for Intergenerational Projects

Happy Valentine’s Day

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OAM Calendar

Hold these dates! 

 

Workshop Series on Issues of Aging

        Presented by First Presbyterian Church, Edenton, North Carolina

 

            Now the Lord said to Abram, “Go from your country and kindred and

            your father’s house to the land that I will show you.”    [Genesis 12:1]

 

 

As we grow older, we often find ourselves called to such a place.  First Presbyterian Church of Edenton is pleased to offer free workshops on the issues of aging from 10 a.m. to noon, each Saturday in February.  The workshops will help prepare each of us – no matter what age – for the “What ifs” of life. 

 

For whom?  For anyone with concerns about aging issues – not just the aging, but for those with concerns about parents, grandparents or other loved ones. 

 

When?  Each Saturday morning in February from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon

 

Where?  First Presbyterian Church, 200 South Moseley Street, Edenton

 

Featuring   Eldercare Consultant Martha Grove Hipskind, well-known author, speaker and trainer from Raleigh, NC, and Rev. Jane Love, pastor.  Hipskind holds a BS degree in Gerontology and an MSPH in Health Policy and Administration.   Rev. Love, who will help facilitate all sessions, will lead the fourth session.  Her vision for the church to focus on a mission to help the people and community with issues for the aging is being fulfilled with this and future workshops.

 

 

 

February 7:        Changing Faces/Changing Places

Understanding memory change with age

 

February 14:  Face to Face with Aging Issues

Is this normal or should I be worried?

 

February 21: Facing the Long Term Care System

What is long term care? What does it cost?  Who pays?

 

February 28: Packing for the Journey

Reflections on changing spiritual needs with age

 

§Transportation and child care available §Refreshments provided

§Free!  No charge, but donations to help defray costs are welcome

 

 

Space is Limited:  Call 482-3332 to Reserve Your Place

 

March 10:  Conscious Aging – A dinner/seminar featuring Harold Moody, Ph.D.

Richmond (VA) Mariott from 6-9 PM.  Cost $60, Limited Space (register early!)

 

March 11:  The Journey of the Soul:  Spirituality in the Second Half of Life – A day-long (9 AM-5 PM) conference at the Richmond (VA) Marriott, featuring sessions on The Journey of the Soul (Harold Moody); Spiritual Autobiography (Sr. Cora Billings); Women Mystics in the Middle Ages (Rebecca Weaver and Bill Blake); Spiritual Tasks of Later Life (Henry Simmins, Ph.D); Perspectives on the Journey in Later Life (Buddhist) – Jean Frostick, Hindu (Neil Bhatt), Jewish (Jack Spiro), Sufi Muslim (Harry Moody), and Sikh (Balwnat Singh Sekhon), and closing plenary is entitled The Late Style of Artists:  Mirror, Meaning, and Self (Harry Moody).  Cost $55

 

For both events the cost is $105.  Sponsored by Virginia Commonwealth University’s Center on Aging.  Proceeds to benefit Alzheimer’s research program.  For further information and registration contact:  (804) 828-1525

 

March 14-18, 2004:  Encircling Care Conference:  Nurturing Congregations Through Health Ministry, sponsored by Health Ministries, USA, PC(USA).  The conference will be held at  Spalding University, Louisville, Kentucky.  For complete conference information, visit the conference web page at:  http://www.pcusa.org/health/usa/encirclingcare/index.htm. 

 

April 20, 2004:  Light on a Gray Area:  A Symposium on Worship and Older Adults, to be held in Silver Spring, Maryland.  To register, contact Ramonia Lee at the Inter-Faith Chapel in Silver Spring, MD: 301-598-5312.  This symposium is made possible by the Lilly Endowment.  The Older Adult Ministries Committee of the Synod is co-sponsoring this symposium. 

 

Need a workshop or retreat?  View some of the possibilities in this brochure:  click on: 

http://civic.bev.net/OAM/congresources.htm and look under Ministry Models. 

 

May 18-21, 2004:  Later Life Ministries Conference at Montreat:  Treasures New and Old.  Keyote leaders:  Steve Eason, senior pastor of Myers Park Presbyterian Church in Charlotte, NC and Teresa Snorton of Decatur, GA, executive director of the Assn. For Clinical Pastoral Education, Inc.  For more information visit the web at www.montreat.org or phone:  828-669-2911 or 1-800-572-2257.

 

 

Older Adult Ministries Committee to Survey Congregations

  

The OAM Committee is conducting a survey of every congregation, seeking input for future planning of older adult ministries.  Presbyterian Women Moderators throughout the Synod will be assisting in this important process.  Please plan to participate!  Here’s the action plan!

      

v     PW Moderators will receive a packet to include a survey and instructions for congregational participation in early January

v     Return completed surveys by February 15

v     Survey results will be available by April 1

 

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Poetry Corner

On Growing Old

 

I sing the songs that no one else remembers;

I say the poems no one else recites.

I have grown old, and on my hearth the embers

Grow cold through dark and never-ending nights.

I dream the dreams that die without fulfillment;

I dwell in darkness where there are no lights.

 

But when I sing another voice sings with me,

Another voice replies when I recite;

And on my hearth the embers glow and kindle;

The flames rise up and all is warm and bright.

For God is with me and my dreams are living;

My days are lit with everlasting light.

                                    By David Wynne

 

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Retirement Community News

 

 

Scotia VillageScotia Village Retirement Community in Laurinburg, NC celebrated its 15th anniversary with a gala celebration on December 12th. Scotia Village, a nationally accredited retirement community and an affiliate of The Presbyterian Homes, Inc. is home to 225 people from 12 states.
Expansion continues with the addition of traditional homes and villas on this 66-acre campus.


 

Photo of Scotia VillageAs part of the on-going celebration activities Bill Oberst, actor and performer, will present a monologue, "Jesus of Nazareth", on Tuesday, January 27th at 3:00 p.m. In authentic costuming, the audience is encouraged to participate in this inter-active performance.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Westminster Canterbury in Richmond offers seminar on legal, medical and spiritual issues

that affect abundant living

 

“Looking Homeward” will bring together professionals in law, medicine, hospice, and pastoral care, for a seminar on Thursday, January 29, 2004, from 9:30 to noon, in the Commons at Westminster Canterbury Richmond, 1600 Westbrook Ave.  Betty Booker, the Times-Dispatch’s Prime Living editor, will serve as moderator as participants reveal perspectives on choices people face as they “look homeward.”

 

Paula Peaden, attorney with Parker, Pollard & Brown, P.C., will discuss “Legal Care:  How to get the results you want.”  David H. Riddick, M.D., medical director, Hospice of Central Virginia, will address the topic “Health Care:  Healthy choices from a medical perspective.”  The director of hospice and palliative care for Bon Secours Hospice, Donna O’Brien, will discuss “Hospice care:  peaceful endings,” while the topic for Daniel G. Bagby, Ph.D., professor of pastoral care, Baptists Theological Seminary at Richmond, will be Pastoral care:  making our final way.”

 

The public is invited to attend.  For additional information, call Obie Sue Thomas at 804-264-6607.

 

Lots to do at Westminster Canterbury in Richmond!  Just go to their web site: www.wescanric.org/ and click on “Events” and “Calendar” to see all the possibilities! 

 

 

Honoring Miriam Dunson

 

On a warm, autumn day in November, friends and colleagues gathered to honor the Rev. Dr. S. Miriam Dunson on the occasion of her retirement from her position as Associate for Older Adult Ministry with the General Assembly.  There were tributes, poetry, quizzes, singing, fine dining and fellowship, gifts, and more, surrounding a person who has given nearly every waking moment to a ministry for which she has a great passion and talent.   She plans a move to Georgia this summer, and will be available to teach workshops and speak on issues of aging upon request.  We wish her all the best in this new and possibly most challenging chapter of her life – retirement! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Harold KoenigCentra Health sponsors and First Presbyterian Church, Lynchburg, VA hosts Religion, Spirituality, and Medicine, a Symposium featuring Dr. Harold Koenig, Associate Professor of Psychiatry and Medicine at Duke University.  He is director and founder of the Center for the Study of Religion/Spirituality and Health at Duke, editor of the International Journal of Psychiatry in Medicine, and founder and editor in chief of Research News in Science and Technology, the monthly international newspaper of the John Templeton Foundation.  To give you a “taste” of Dr. Koenig’s views on the strong connections between spirituality and health, go to:  http://www.usatoday.com/community/chat/0629koenig.htm to read a transcript of an interview with USA Today.   Dr. Koenig is a truly inspiring speaker, with a gift to interpret his research and the research of others.   We applaud the efforts of Centra Health and First Presbyterian Church to sponsor and host this exceptional event. 

 

 

 

 

 

Good News-bits to Share!

 

Many of you know the Rev. Donna Coffman, Executive Director of Caring Congregations in Richmond, VA.  Donna is excited to announce that in August, 2003, after 13 years of living with a rare bone disease called oncogenic hypophosphatemic osteomalacia, the doctors at Duke Medical Center declared her surgery (to remove a lemon-sized tumor in her leg) to be a success.  This condition has caused chronic pain for many years.  The technical findings have been published in the July, 2003 issue of American Journal of Medicine, complete with pictures and graphs.  Donna says, “I attribute this miracle to the abundant and persistent prayer of so many faithful friends.”  Life is good!   Thanks be to God.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Elaine Handley, member of the Synod OAM Committee, and the Rev. Curtis Patterson were married in late November, 2003.  Elaine is Vice President of Senior Services, Inc. in Winston-Salem, NC and Curtis is honorably retired from Thomasville Presbyterian in Salem Presbytery and currently serving as Parish Associate at First Presbyterian in Greensboro.  Congratulations Elaine and Curtis Patterson! 

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Interested in vacations with a purpose?  Check out some options at Today Show’s web site at www.msnbc.com and type in “volunteer vacations” for a search list of organizations that offer vacations that combine site seeing, fun, and volunteerism!  Some organizations mentioned on the Today Show on Monday, Jan. 19:  Cross Cultural Volunteers, World Teach, Airline Ambassadors, Pediatricians for Central America

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National Study Cites Serious Lack of Adult Day Services
A new report released by Partners in Caregiving reveals that there are 60 percent fewer adult day centers than needed to meet the demands of the growing elderly population. The National Study of Adult Day Services says there are about 3,400 adult day centers nationwide, but 5,000+ more are needed. The Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (www.rwjf.org), in partnership with the Wake Forest University School of Medicine, funded the study.

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Public Confused About Status of Medicare Bill
The Nov./Dec. 2003 Kaiser Health Poll Report reveals that, on the basis of a survey it conducted, four in 10 seniors and six in 10 adults overall don’t know that Congress passed the recent Medicare bill and that the President signed it. These findings point to future challenges in teaching Medicare beneficiaries about the law and how it works.

        More info: http://headlines.kff.org/healthpollreport/templates/detail.php?page=2&feature=hni
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Announcement of Funding for Intergenerational Projects

Family Friends offers unique opportunities for worthwhile intergenerational projects for people of all faiths. Here is a special opportunity to submit an application for funding at approximately $70,000. for 30 months. 

 

 

The complete grant announcement with application guidelines and eligibility criteria is available online at www.family-friends.org/grant.htm. Background materials on the Family Friends program may be downloaded from the Resources section of the Family Friends Web site at www.family-friends.org/resources.htm. Organizations without internet access may request a copy of the grant announcement and Family Friends program materials by calling or writing: NCOA, Family Friends, 300 D Street, SW, Suite 801, Washington, DC 20024; (202) 479-6672 (phone); or (202) 479-0735 (fax). Information will be sent via first class mail only.

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We wish you a Happy Valentine’s Day!  A tip:  Buy a package or two of inexpensive valentines.  Once a day between now and Valentine’s Day, write someone a personal note and make a stack of your written notes.  Mail them out in time for Valentine’s Day and think of the smiles they will bring to those who read your hand-written notes.       

 

Jan McGilliard, Editor

jmcgill@bev.net